We Left the City and Never Ever Looked Back

You're not alone if you ever dream of a fresh start in the nation. Hear what it resembles from three households who actually made the leap.
Who hasn't imagined ditching city life and relocating to the country? Possibly you've invested weekend getaways skimming the local genuine estate listings, baffled by how far a dollar can extend: A farmhouse (with acreage!) for what a walkup studio would cost in the city?

In 2012, I made the jump, moving from Seattle to a little summer season town in Maine. I began photographing these people and interviewing them about their victories and challenges in transitioning to nation living. The task took flight instantly-- plainly I wasn't the only one believing about leaving the city.

Don't take it from me, though. Hear it from these 3 families who left the city behind for a fresh start.

Photography by Alissa Hessler. You can learn more profiles like these on Urban Exodus and in her book Ditch the City and Go Nation.



Kenzie and Shawn Fields
When a family of New Yorkers found a quirky home in the Berkshires at a third the expense of their city coop, they figured it was fate.
Moved from: New York City City, pop. 8.5 million
Kenzie and Shawn Fields were living in what most New York families would think about a dream scenario-- a three-bedroom coop apartment or condo in a preferable Brooklyn neighborhood. To pay for living in the city, however, both Kenzie and Shawn had to work long hours.

When Kenzie's moms and dads moved to the Berkshires, an innovative hub in the mountains of Massachusetts, the Fields household came for a go to and began dreaming of leaving the city behind. "It felt like an inspired concept," remembers Shawn. "On what I believed was a lark, we looked at a house in a town with a great little school," states Shawn.

Transferred to: New Marlborough, Mass., pop. 1,509
Shawn and Kenzie took a leap of faith and moved their family to New Marlborough. "Living in a town in the country was a good response for us," states Kenzie. We live across from a hurrying creek, which is soothing.

Instead of continuing to work hard to even more the professions of other artists, the couple decided to focus their efforts on building Shawn's fine-art service. Giving up their stable city earnings while handling the expenses of winter season heating and caring for an old house hasn't been a cakewalk, but they can't think of returning to the confined boundaries of city living.

Entering their house resembles strolling into among Shawn's narrative paintings. On a typical day, their daughter, Honey, might welcome you in the yard with a pet rabbit, their son Peter may follow you around with his brass trumpet, and their other son Odie may use to carry out a magic technique. They have actually gotten crafty-- repurposing wood, windows and thrifted treasures to change their cottage into a comfortable, quirky wonderland.

The kids have much more freedom to explore now-- they invest hours playing in the creek by their home and volunteering at the library down the street. And they've all noticed, states Kenzie, that "the chance to care is more present when you run out the overwhelming scale of a city. When my mother died, individuals we didn't know well left entire meals on our patio."

They like the natural setting of their new life, states Kenzie. That's simply the start. "Playing charades with our next-door neighbors, heating with wood, the animals, library pie sales, town hall meetings. Our good friends down the roadway invite individuals over to sing conventional music every Sunday night, actually standing around the piano after dinner."

Richard Blanco
A Cuban-American poet discovered the quiet he requires to write-- plus a sense of belonging-- in a small Maine town.
Moved from: San Antonio, Texas
At President Obama's second inauguration in 2013, Richard Blanco's reading of his poem One Today influenced the country. What the majority of people don't understand is that, looking back, he's not sure he would have been able to write the poem if he had not been confined to his writing desk, surrounded by pine forests stacked high with snow, up on a mountainside in his brand-new home in St Louis, Missouri.

Before relocating to Maine, Richard lived the majority of his life in San Antonio. In 2012, he was working as a civil engineer and composing in his extra time when his partner, Mark, got a task that required the couple to move to the tiny ski town of St Louis, Missouri. Richard was a little anxious at first, he was thrilled at the prospect of leaving the traffic and noise of city life and having the opportunity to write more.

Being the kid of Cuban exiles and an immigrant himself, who had actually concerned San Antonio as a baby, Richard has always longed to find a place where he belongs. A predominant theme in his writing is what it requires to make a location seem like house. And he now recognizes that living in the country was a natural for him. "I believe I have actually constantly desired to relocate to the nation," he states. "I constantly had a destination to it, especially since I went back to Cuba to check out in my teenagers. The majority of my family is from backwoods in Cuba, and I felt extremely at home there."

Transferred to: St Louis, Missouri
Richard and Mark didn't understand how this small town would get them, but they have actually been pleasantly surprised. St Louis has actually welcomed "the gay couple from San Antonio," as they were referred to for a while, with open arms. Richard is a respected member of the neighborhood and-- because the inauguration-- a town celeb.

It's been an adjustment. "After that honeymoon phase, the very first thing that started to scold on me was needing to drive everywhere," states Richard. And shopping is tricky: "I live in a resort town, so I can get sushi, but I can't get inkjet cartridges or underclothing." To his surprise, he also missed going out: "Sometimes you simply desire to dress up and feel wonderful-- and there is no place to do that. I've outgrown all my fits living here." He likewise misses out on the privacy of city life: "There is no such thing as simply a waiter in St Louis. You understand their whole life, and you understand their children, where they grew up ... and they know whatever about you. It's gorgeous, but sometimes Mark and I will wish to head out to go over something over supper and ... the walls have ears."

"After a year of fighting the aspects, I had to make choices about where to stop landscaping and let nature take over," says Richard. "I got a little carried away and made these mounds of work for myself and ended up not enjoying what I initially came here for.

After transferring to the nation, Richard initially continued to work from another location on contract engineering tasks, but the less expensive expense of living in Maine allowed him to move focus and prioritize his poetry. And considering that 2013, he's had the ability to work nearly entirely as an author, leaving his engineering profession behind. He has actually composed two award-winning memoirs and many poems. He has actually taught composing workshops all over the world and simply finished his first fine-press book, Limits. A number of weeks prior to he made the journey to DC for the 2013 inauguration, he notoriously practiced his poem to an audience of snowmen in his front yard.

He gives the location where he lives a great deal of credit for all this. Life in the nation has actually offered him area and time to concentrate on his writing. And perhaps more notably, it has actually finally given him a place that feels like house.

Joe and Ashley Duggers
A surprise organisation obstacle turned these Silicon Valley business owners into a family of rural ranchers.
Moved from: Sacramento, California
A few years ago, Joe and Ashley Duggers owned and ran 11 services in the Silicon Valley city of Sacramento: a discovering center, a maker space, a flower designer shop and a play space for young children, just to name a couple of. All this in visit addition to raising four women under the age of 6. They appreciated their hectic, full lives however fretted that the affluence of Silicon Valley would offer their daughters a manipulated point of view on the world.

In 2010, they opened a farm-to-table restaurant called Bumble however struggled to source morally raised meat. This led them to a new possible venture-- running an animals ranch that could provide meat to their restaurant. They visited the Sharps Gulch Ranch in the grassy field river valley of Fort Jones, California, a brief drive from the Oregon border. From here, it was a six-hour drive down I-5 to Silicon Valley, but without the outrageous sticker cost of land more detailed to the Bay Location. The residential or commercial property had 2 homes, one a historic Victorian in desperate need of repair work and one a relaxing two-bedroom cabin. They jumped in and purchased the residential or commercial property in 2013, wanting to one day find a way to transfer to the cattle ranch full time.

Moved to: Fort Jones, California, pop. 688
The Duggers' original plan was to work with ranchers to run business. Joe and Ashley would increase on weekends so the ladies could spend time running free in the outdoors. "We constantly had a desire to raise our kids in wide open areas in a more rural neighborhood," says Ashley. "Joe matured on a farm and hoped we 'd return to the land one day. After coming up every weekend for a number of months and finding a gem of a community here, we rapidly decided this was where we wanted to raise our kids. We sold our businesses and went up the day our oldest child completed kindergarten and have actually been all-in since."

After 4 years of tough work, the Duggers have actually built a successful pasture-raised meat company. Looking for more ways to make a living off the land, this year they introduced Five Ashley Retreats, where they host ladies at their hillside ranch camp for a weekend of farm chores and cooking classes.

There are no vacations or weekends off, however they spend a lot more time together as a family now, working together with one another. The Duggers don't have the conveniences, clean clothing or downtime they had in their previous life, and have actually needed to end up being more self-dependent: "In the city, I could get anything done at the drop of a hat," says Ashley. "However in the nation, I've had to change my expectations. Whatever moves a bit more slowly, but residing on a cattle ranch implies you can build anything you can imagine yourself, which is more gratifying than employing someone to do it."

Another benefit is seeing their women become fearless, independent and hardworking free-range females. "My girls' preferred slogan is 'where there is a will, there's a way,' and we all need to press tough to make it all happen!" says Ashley. At the end of a long day, when the animals are fed, Ashley and Joe enjoy to blend a cocktail, put a Five Ashley roast in the oven and rest on their front deck to watch their daughters run totally free in the backyard.

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